Tuesday, February 24, 2009

#551: woe.

i feel like crap today.

i just got played bigtime by one of my girlfriends and i'm just not feeling very inspired in general.

so.

42 comments:

sergeilovestonya said...

Well, how about hug from a complete stranger? ;)

(((hug)))

Friends can really suck sometimes. I hope that it isn't anything too deep or too permanent!

e said...

friends CAN really suck sometimes especially girls :( ! I'm sorry i feel your pain! try and cheer up! :)

Irishker said...

soo...

sometimes people suck for random reasons.

don't let that get you down. You're awesome and doing a great job at sharing things with us readers!

Keep up the good work!!!

lazybride said...

that sucks. feel better. i find a strong beverage helps + gratuitous bitching to non-involved party

Miss Mallika said...

try not to take it personally. :) plus, PCC Flea Market is coming up THIS weekend! goodies!

a mindful bride said...

Having a bad day sometimes helps us appreciate the good ones (I suppose that goes for friends as well). Most days you inspire so many of us, its okay to give yourself a break once in a while. Hopefully tomorrow things will seem brighter and more inspired.

delighted heart said...

Just read your post on felt flowers. Have you see princesslasertron.com ? She has amazing felt flowers mixed with vintage buttons and button flowers. We've (FDIL and I) have fallen in love with them! Now trying to work them into the budget which is close to yours. Thanks for all the great info on your blog!
Patti

east side bride said...

we <3 you.

LindzML said...

I'm recently engaged and just started reading your blog, it's fabulous. Here's to hoping things get better!!!

jenelisebeth said...

Oh, man, me too. Can't go into details, but let's just say a friend hasn't exactly been easy to deal with during this whole wedding planning fiasco.

So...cheers to our REAL friends,and cheers to your wonderful blog!

Enna said...

That sucks! Sorry. But you're AWESOME!

Jenn said...

Wow! Can I just say that this just happened to me Sunday night? Slap in the face, sympathetic to your situation...

Stephanie said...

That sucks big time. Hope things work out soon and your day got better.

I had to fire a bridesmaid recently because she was being hateful.

MsTeacherLady said...

That's the worst feeling... I'm so sorry! I hope tomorrow is fabulous!

un-bride said...

that totally blows. i'm so sorry -- gigantic eHug from me, too!

un-bride said...

ps: and that free dance class, any time you want it :)

Em said...

The other day I told a girl to push her future sister-in-law "in front of a bus." In an Alley McBeal kinda way, of course. Today, I say the same to you :) Stay fabulous.

PLANNING ON PENNIES said...

boo to the mean people!

on the bright side you saved yourself postage in not mailing her an invitation ;)

I hope things get better!!

Cyd said...

I've been there, done that sooo many times and I feel your anguish right now. I hope days are sunnier soon.

xoxo

Margaret, Project Wedding said...

That sucks. I hope you feel better soon!! *HUG*

Chic.Personal.Fun said...

Do I need to open a can of whup A%^& on someone? Anyway, I hope you are feeling better. Stay amazing.

Robyn said...

GIRL! What the heck? That is just WRONG and there is no other way to handle it than to throw yourself a little pity party. But tomorrow, you gotta move on and put it behind you. You've got a WEDDING to plan and bigger things to concern your pretty little head with than someone who did you wrong.
Hoping, wishing, praying it works itself out and "I'm-so-sorrys" are about to commence.
You are adored by the masses.

teacher says... said...

i hope things get better for you. i got engaged in july and almost immediately chose my BMs -- all 7 of them. since then there have been several little catfights among my BMs. for the most part i have been getting along with them (aside from the annoying opinions) but it's the problems between each other that are a little uncomfortable...i'm only hoping everything is resolved before the wedding...

preppydoc said...

I have been following your blog and you are so awesome...

Cheer up and don't let the bad stuff get you down

Anonymous said...

I would say the the fact that the abbreviation for Bridesmaids is the same as bowel movement is a sign ;). Just kidding, but I feel your pain. I had a friend sort of be not such a great friend recently too. Hang in there. I'm learning that some friendships deserve your time and nurturing and some - even if they are long lived - don't. I am so glad that we chose not to have a wedding party (big day is this Friday). It was seriously the best decision we made.

mims said...

A big raspberry to her!

(((big hug))) to you!

kjb said...

i hope you are having a better day today!!

Vancouver Bride said...

*sigh* sorry to hear this.
but sometimes it's good to know who our real friends are. important to surround yourself with wonderful people that love you and make you happy :)

Ingy2009 said...

She sucks! Hope ur day is better.

carboniferous said...

soooo sorry. people in general can suck (*raises hand sheepishly*). but it's worse when they suck and you're involved. i'm in favour of gratutitous bitching to a non-bias party and writing lots of letters that don't actually get sent helps.

i know it won't help right now (if it does, hey, great), but i'm sure a lot of us have been through said drama/trauma, and it will get better and you will grow from it.

Lizeth said...

that sucks balls! sorry!

amy said...

dude, i'm sorry to hear this. i love coming here every day so it's a bummer to hear you've been bummed. mean people suck. hope it gets better.

blushingjoy said...

Don't let her get to you. It's not worth it. Have a great day! *hugzz*

K @ Blog Goggles said...

Got played? :(

Amanda said...

I was watching my bout of DVR 'Housewives of the OC' and 'Bad Girl's Club' last night (I know), and It reminded me of why I choose not to have many girlfriends. I like to think that I'm just jaded and most girls aren't crazy... but I'm not so sure.

Anonymous said...

I found bridesmaid dresses on sale for less than $30 and quickly purchased all 3 dresses in their current sizes. Two of them are furious at me because they want to lose weight before the wedding and think that I have no faith in them by not buying smaller sizes.

WTF? I guess they would rather pay $100 more later when they get to choose their size. *sigh* It happens to all of us.

Kimi Weart said...

I had a "best friend" freak out on me 4 weeks before my wedding. And who said at one point, and I quote, "You're the one who's supposed to be always single and I'M the one who's supposed to be getting married!!" I hear this kind of blow-out is completely typical, and let's hope we all end up speaking to our friends again.

Anonymous said...

It can go both ways...I was the MOH to who I thought was my BFF since childhood. While she planned her wedding, I tried to be as involved and supportive as possible and put up with ALOT of bridezilla crap to honor her day. Months after her wedding she was still a bitch, told me she shouldv'e picked someone else for MOH, said I did not contribute enough financially to her wedding expense and humiliated me in front of friends and my then "new boyfriend" ( now my FI) when she pointed out my flaws in a get-together where she played her wedding video. Needless to say, I cut her out of my life and never looked back! Mean people only get meaner with weddings...wedding planning does not create monsters, those monsters are already there.

Suzanne Carvlin said...

Girl! This happened to me last week! She was just awful to the point that she is no longer a "friend". Sometimes, you can get past things, and sometimes people are just poison in your life. Good luck with whatever you decided and in finding your real friends, because you do have them! Suzanne ;-)

Suzanne Carvlin said...

P.S. I am a wedding planner and I am really enjoying your blog! Fresh, honest and fun! Keep up the great work! And have fun planning your wedding! Suz ;-)

Suzanne Carvlin said...

What does <3 mean?

Jeremiah K - The Perfect Pear l.l.c. said...

dnt feel gloomy! just raise your head up, and smile.. your wedding is coming..
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