tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906032051076130258.post4774053207478988943..comments2023-11-23T03:04:09.881-08:00Comments on a $10,000 wedding.: #611: hip hop at noon.Ten Thousand Onlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09731426268019406064noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906032051076130258.post-85117761531425500562009-07-25T02:32:05.527-07:002009-07-25T02:32:05.527-07:00talk to the dj's, give them the list of the so...talk to the dj's, give them the list of the songs that you want to play, make a list of synchronization or a play list of songs that gonna be played during a program, plan well the even coordinate with the dj's, and keep reminding them not to over do it! :)<br /><br /> -----------------------------<br /><br />The Perfect Pear has been your specialists for Christening Gowns, Flower Girl Dresses, flower girl gowns, First Communion Dresses and Suits. 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Give them music to dance to. ;o)Skeetahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11093172635166847227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906032051076130258.post-26668539331983904202009-04-18T03:19:00.000-07:002009-04-18T03:19:00.000-07:00this is a really funny post! i understand how you ...this is a really funny post! i understand how you feel about having other people be in charge of something so important as music and dj-ing, but i guess this person sounds ok and when it's the actual day you'll have a good time! i have friends who sing at weddings and they ask so much because they CAN! but they really do feel they should do anything they can to make the bride happy so i guess all is good.hellosteffihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00332225778675324750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906032051076130258.post-77451252217110175742009-04-14T16:31:00.000-07:002009-04-14T16:31:00.000-07:00I'm in your boat too, but we haven't even ...I'm in your boat too, but we haven't even picked one out! I have some suggestions from our vendor, but no idea where to begin. How do I know if they're my style or taste? I don't know a friend of a friend, I need help! I'm wondering if they will have videos or samples we can see to get their vibe. Our wedding will be late afternoon, but I want folks dancing their butts off & having a blast.<br />I honestly considered the DJ, but our venue lady suggested otherwise. If for nothing else, the DJ will have experience in the flow of the event & be able to announce you, announce the cake cutting time, etc. Make sure they see your event & even attend the rehersal, if possible, to know the cues.Mrs. Andihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09086142807086386230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906032051076130258.post-48863635105934251042009-04-14T11:54:00.000-07:002009-04-14T11:54:00.000-07:00"i didn't even feel right delegating someone to li..."i didn't even feel right delegating someone to light candles around the room, let alone man an ipod for a few hours."<br /><br />I had the same DJ dilemna. We were going to ipod it. But I was so worried I would worry the whole time. <br /><br />We went with a DJ but were very explicit about what we wanted and didn't want. No Crazy Light Show. Do not play this or this. You must play this. <br /><br />I was astonished by the price but from what I've heard, it's worth it.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15063732941379069718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906032051076130258.post-67028219368405258252009-04-14T02:40:00.000-07:002009-04-14T02:40:00.000-07:00I went to a lovely wedding that was early afternoo...I went to a lovely wedding that was early afternoon (we had to finish at 4:30pm). Half the folks in attendance were dry. Believe me, if you've got a few fun dance tunes playing, you'll have folks on the dance floor. <br /><br />I totally second the "if the bride's dancing, so will the guests" bit too.<br /><br />The only sad part about the afternoon wedding dancing, is that it felt like it ended too soon! We wanted more dancing :)JustaRabbitnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906032051076130258.post-21277156079736278372009-04-13T22:31:00.000-07:002009-04-13T22:31:00.000-07:00Aaahhh...I guess I'm finally "deciding.&q...Aaahhh...I guess I'm finally "deciding." To let go, that is. My parents are basically throwing us a shindig b/c they weren't real keen on our small, out of state, courthouse wedding. I've actually made quite a few decisions but my mom has gotten stuck on music. She's very stressed by what it means to not have a DJ (!) & use an iPod. I chalk 75% of this worry to expectations of various townfolk & expected guests. But, between her doing all the amazing cooking & funding the homebase stuff, I think I just gotta 'let go.' We've got a good friend doing music - inc. a surprise song written for us! - another friend officiating, the smaller ceremony in the backyard (townfolk to reception only!), friends crashing at the house... So, while it's a cultural thing & also a small town (gossipy crap) thing, I think it'll make her happier. Plus I figure it's giving a local guy/acquaintance some work? Eh. We're daytime PLUS no alcohol ('til after party!) so we'll see...<br />Thanks for posting this just when I needed it, (fiance is all no comment) how do you always know?! (Sorry for the long comment but these wonderful blogs are the only spot for me to 'vent' about these types of things & thank you for that.)amynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906032051076130258.post-45878123140274706922009-04-13T19:22:00.000-07:002009-04-13T19:22:00.000-07:00I have the same fear about my daytime wedding. My ...I have the same fear about my daytime wedding. My FI and I own a side business and work in the wedding industry on the side. The one thing we hear ALOT from photo, video and DJ is 'wherever the bride goes so does the guests.' I can't begin to tell you how true this is and how often we have witnessed it. One wedding the bride and groom were constantly outside for smoke breaks and it certainly showed on the dance floor. I'm really going to try to keep that tidbit in mind for the reception.Beckynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906032051076130258.post-79621635207324476882009-04-13T17:39:00.000-07:002009-04-13T17:39:00.000-07:00Seconding the idea that alcohol, good spirits, and...Seconding the idea that alcohol, good spirits, and a focused bride, will all lead to dancing. Oh yeah. And a killer playlist.LPChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18209861350905135093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906032051076130258.post-64455878299955277622009-04-13T14:38:00.000-07:002009-04-13T14:38:00.000-07:00Um. At our daytime wedding I expect people to danc...Um. At our daytime wedding I expect people to dance. Mostly because I expect everyone to be ever so slightly in fear of me... because you never really know... ;)<BR/><BR/>And ours will be an ipod. and I still expect them to dance.<BR/><BR/>Mostly, I think if you model dancing, and have your people (our bridal brigade) model dancing, and tell everyone you expect dancing, and have music even old folks like to dance to, the time of day won't matter much.Meghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09526722516550185150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906032051076130258.post-11659366855383042022009-04-13T14:26:00.000-07:002009-04-13T14:26:00.000-07:00Alcohol often eventually leads to dancing if there...Alcohol often eventually leads to dancing if there is a floor and appropriate music, in my experience, no matter what time of day. If there are some people there who you know are into dancing - and especially if you are out on the dance floor with them - then it's more likely that other people will feel comfortable dancing. If not, then good for the DJ to have music that is just as good for a party background as for dancing (in case the mood strikes people later), and knows not to try to push people onto the floor if they're not feeling it. I would definitely tell the DJ that you don't want to force it, so they know what your priorities are.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906032051076130258.post-64385018411838527392009-04-13T13:42:00.000-07:002009-04-13T13:42:00.000-07:00nicole#1: LOVE your best advice.rachel: actually,...nicole#1: LOVE your best advice.<BR/><BR/>rachel: actually, that's a good question. i don't care either way. worst case scenario = loud dance music, empty dance floor, awkwardness. you know?<BR/><BR/>so trust the dj. got it!Ten Thousand Onlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09731426268019406064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906032051076130258.post-27889392407316361622009-04-13T13:12:00.000-07:002009-04-13T13:12:00.000-07:00It's so much easier to hire someone and just take ...It's so much easier to hire someone and just take that worry off your list! <BR/><BR/>As for the dancing, I think people are going to be less than inclined. Do you want them to dance? If so, maybe start off with something everyone recognizes and will dance to (Sinatra or oldies usually works) then slowly scale up into full on dance music.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10211797571405802312noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906032051076130258.post-33416459829145926552009-04-13T12:26:00.000-07:002009-04-13T12:26:00.000-07:00If your friends were happy with these DJs, I think...If your friends were happy with these DJs, I think you can trust them with the playlist. You have enough to worry about. Plus, every family has that one song that gets everyone on their feet no matter what time of day (is it the electric slide for anyone else? that one gets even my shyest cousins up and dancing.)Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02425750469635997448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906032051076130258.post-83149604693964009262009-04-13T11:51:00.000-07:002009-04-13T11:51:00.000-07:00Don't assume anything. Its a celebration and I wo...Don't assume anything. Its a celebration and I would imagine people would feel like dancing. Maybe not to Flo Rida - but who knows? I would chat with your dj - tell her your hangups and see if she has any suggestions. And then tell her to feel it out...their job is to have a vibe for these things and control the flow of the party. Sounds like you're in good hands.Shelbyhttp://www.927photography.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906032051076130258.post-89836493657644625902009-04-13T11:27:00.000-07:002009-04-13T11:27:00.000-07:00That sounds great. I'm sure you'll be happy with t...That sounds great. I'm sure you'll be happy with this decision. And what a bonus to have someone semi-coordinate the day for you. I bet that will come in more handy than you can guess right now!Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09719798812778250015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906032051076130258.post-39800112842085294032009-04-13T11:20:00.000-07:002009-04-13T11:20:00.000-07:00my best advice is this: give the DJ a few ideas ab...my best advice is this: give the DJ a few ideas about the type of music you like and a few "must plays", but trust that they know what they're doing. our dj was a friend who is a professional dj. we gave him loose guidelines but generally let him do his thing. and it was GREAT. so much depends on what is happening in the moment-- who's dancing, what's getting the crowd going, etc.-- it can't be planned too carefully. this is why i think the ipod playlist often flops-- you just can't predict what the mood of a party will be-- daytime, nighttime, whatever. maybe it will be hip hop, maybe motown, who knows? trust that the DJ will know -- that's why you hired one! <BR/><BR/>-Nicole<BR/>http://www.promtoaltar.net/blog/<BR/>http://itsloverly.blogspot.com/Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12245297960220355931noreply@blogger.com